Love and relationships can be wonderful, but not when you are involved with a “Loser”.
“"The Loser" is a type of partner that creates much social, emotional and psychological damage in a relationship. "The Loser" has permanent personality characteristics that create massive damage to his/her partner. These are characteristics that they accept simply as the way they are and not a problem or psychological difficulty.”
To be in a relationship with the Loser, means years of social, emotional and psychological damage. There will be a mean and then being sweet behavioural cycle, you will be blamed from anything from 9-11 to his behaviour towards you (it’s always your fault) including his business failures, and the bottomline – S/he will kill your self-confidence and leave you doubting your value and belief structures and even wondering why you have been placed on earth.
Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist; supplies insightful and helpful handouts to clients on this. While his site claims the handouts to be reproducible if the author is credited, I do not accidentally want my blog to be considered for plagiarism, hence I attach/embed 2 handouts, and refer you for further reading:
http://www.drjoecarver.com/3/miscellaneous2.htm
https://askthepsych.com/atp/2008/11/18/knowing-when-dating-a-loser/
http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser And if you keep going back to the Loser….
http://counsellingresource.com/lib/therapy/self-help/stockholm/: The mystery of loving an abuser
“"The Loser" is a type of partner that creates much social, emotional and psychological damage in a relationship. "The Loser" has permanent personality characteristics that create massive damage to his/her partner. These are characteristics that they accept simply as the way they are and not a problem or psychological difficulty.”
To be in a relationship with the Loser, means years of social, emotional and psychological damage. There will be a mean and then being sweet behavioural cycle, you will be blamed from anything from 9-11 to his behaviour towards you (it’s always your fault) including his business failures, and the bottomline – S/he will kill your self-confidence and leave you doubting your value and belief structures and even wondering why you have been placed on earth.
Joseph M. Carver, Ph.D., Psychologist; supplies insightful and helpful handouts to clients on this. While his site claims the handouts to be reproducible if the author is credited, I do not accidentally want my blog to be considered for plagiarism, hence I attach/embed 2 handouts, and refer you for further reading:
http://www.drjoecarver.com/3/miscellaneous2.htm
https://askthepsych.com/atp/2008/11/18/knowing-when-dating-a-loser/
http://www.drjoecarver.com/clients/49355/File/IdentifyingLosers.html: Warning Signs You're Dating a Loser And if you keep going back to the Loser….
http://counsellingresource.com/lib/therapy/self-help/stockholm/: The mystery of loving an abuser
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