Up to about early 1960’s; oral sex was considered a serious disorder. Not normal at all. Illegal in so many states as well. Who knew?
Since all the more people since, started/became involved in oral sex; it is not viewed as a disorder anymore since late 80’s (Many disorders also are based upon statistics of behavior).
The DSM-IV, DSM-V – you might call this the Psychiatrist’s Bible – is also is built upon behavioural & emotional patterns and those of interactions amongst people. If you find yourself in the less than 20%, you might consider that as a possible problem. If in or above the 80% of other behaviors, you might be considered ‘normal’.
Oral sex, by the way, in some countries; is not considered illegal or rape, if the victim/participant, is unconscious due to drinking https://www.theguardian.com/society/2016/apr/27/oral-sex-rape-ruling-tulsa-oklahoma-alcohol-consent
(Not very sure how you can be called a participant if you are out-of-it).
In the meantime, Canada also declared oral sex with animals acceptable. http://www.complex.com/life/2016/06/canada-oral-sex-animals-legal
Is all of this healthy?
I am not even going to start writing about human rights. Any human being should by now really also understand that anyone and everyone has rights – if I or you lie unconscious next to the road – that does not mean permission for sex – oral or otherwise- to whomever walks by. Or whatever they want to try and do to my body.
In particular I also do not understand that I actually need to write such type of Blog…!
Links have been reported between oral sex and oral cancer with human papillomavirus (HPV)-infected people. In 2005, a research study at Malmö University's Faculty of Odontology suggested that performing unprotected oral sex on a person infected with HPV might increase the risk of oral cancer. The study found that 36 percent of the cancerpatients had HPV compared to https://www.theguardian.com/society/2016/apr/27/oral-sex-rape-ruling-tulsa-oklahoma-alcohol-consent only 1 percent of the healthy control group.
I am not sure how you will ask your unconscious partner or the animals running around, whether they perhaps have the HIV virus, or other medical issues.
I also struggle with the idea, that oral sex might be acceptable if I fall into the bottle. That, according to me, is still an invasion of privacy. If I drink too much, if I pass out – that is still no consent for any type of sex, whether oral or otherwise.
Any type of sex, should always be executed only with INFORMED CONSENT.
If you think I am wrong, let me know!!